

BDSM is the most-fantasized kink in America, with 93% of men and 96% of women having fantasized about it before, according to research by Justin Lehmiller, Ph.D., Kinsey Institute researcher and member of the Men's Health Advisory Panel. BTW, you're not alone in wanting to try it. If all this BDSM stuff is brand new to you, first of all: Congrats on taking the first step to indulging your kinky curiosity. Some of these sex toys aren't for the faint of heart, but they can be a whole lot of fun if used safely and correctly. Cuffs (for restraining someone) and floggers (for impact play) are among the more common BDSM sex toys you'll find on this list, but you'll also explore some next-level items like anal hooks, metal claws, an electrostimulation wand, and an alien breeder dildo. On this list, you'll find BDSM toys ranging from mainstream-or, as "mainstream" as a BDSM toy can get-to niche products for experienced kinksters. (Think: using a vibrator on your partner as you practice orgasm denial, or "punishing" your submissive partner by having them wear a butt plug out to dinner.) But then there are toys specifically designed for BDSM-an umbrella term that stands for Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, Sadism, and Masochism-which is what we're here to talk about today.īDSM fans seeking a more intense sex session may way specific toys and devices to help set a scene involving Dominance, submission, bondage, pain, humiliation, role play, and/or other kinky activities.

You can totally use mainstream sex toys, like vibrators, cock rings, and anal plugs. If you're into BDSM, there's an infinite number of ways to incorporate sex toys into your kinky bedroom routine.
